Over the years, I've told colleagues and friends about things I have seen or experienced. Many times, people have said that I should write them down so that they won't be lost and forgotten, since some of them might be useful parts of our history. I've been writing them down, without being sure what I would do with them. I decided to gradually post them on this website, and see what reactions I get. I suggest reading from the bottom up (starting with the August 2017 post "The Meritocracy"). Thoughtful and kind feedback would be useful for me, and would help me to revise the exposition to make it as useful as possible. I hope that while you read my stories you will ask yourself "What can I learn from this?" I'm particularly interested in knowing what you see as the point of the story, or what you take away from it. Please send feedback to asilverb@gmail.com. Thanks for taking the time to read and hopefully reflect on them!

I often run the stories past the people I mention, even when they are anonymized, to get their feedback and give them a chance to correct the record or ask for changes. When they tell me they're happy to be named, I sometimes do so. When I give letters as pseudonyms, there is no correlation between those letters and the names of the real people.

Saturday, July 19, 2025

Women's Voices (or: Why I'm posting my stories, Part 2)

In the summer of 2017, a long screed written by a twenty-something Google employee was getting much more press coverage than it deserved. It seemed to me that the writer hadn't studied or understood the issue of why there aren't many women in tech in sufficient depth to warrant such massive media attention.

Over the years, books and articles by scholars who thought deeply about the subject were not getting the media attention they deserved. It looked to me as if the media tended to ignore the voices of women who knew more, in favor of rehashing provocative claims, stereotypes, and musings of random people. It fed a harmful "outrage culture."

Each time the media promoted a dubious claim about the superiority of men, women in STEM scrambled to rebut it.

Repeatedly debunking discredited theories feels like whack-a-mole. We have better things to do with our time.

Why do I post my stories? For many years I've documented some of the interesting things I've observed, and told them to friends and colleagues. Some of the information could be helpful in understanding a piece of the history of places such as Harvard, Princeton, Ohio State University, the University of Cambridge, and the University of California, and perhaps academia in general (or at least math departments). I don't want my stories to be forgotten when I die.

Writing about and posting some of what I've learned and seen seems more useful than fuming about misplaced priorities of the media.

People can choose what to read. I hope that people will read my stories and essays and, rather than feeling outrage, ask "What can I learn from this? How can I use it to make things better?"