Over the years, I've told colleagues and friends about things I have seen or experienced. Many times, people have said that I should write them down so that they won't be lost and forgotten, since some of them might be useful parts of our history. I've been writing them down, without being sure what I would do with them. I decided to gradually post them on this website, and see what reactions I get. I suggest reading from the bottom up (starting with the August 2017 post "The Meritocracy"). Thoughtful and kind feedback would be useful for me, and would help me to revise the exposition to make it as useful as possible. I hope that while you read my stories you will ask yourself "What can I learn from this?" I'm particularly interested in knowing what you see as the point of the story, or what you take away from it. Please send feedback to asilverb@gmail.com. Thanks for taking the time to read and hopefully reflect on them!

I often run the stories past the people I mention, even when they are anonymized, to get their feedback and give them a chance to correct the record or ask for changes. When they tell me they're happy to be named, I sometimes do so. When I give letters as pseudonyms, there is no correlation between those letters and the names of the real people.

Wednesday, January 6, 2021

The Pendulum

(I wrote the below about a month ago, but it didn't seem worth posting. Today's events reminded me of it.)

About 20 years ago, an acquaintance from Germany, who had spent some time in Berkeley in the 1980s, told me some of her observations about the United States.

Something would happen, the media would report it, and everyone would get excited about it. Opinions were extreme, on both sides. First, it pulled one way, with the loudest voices aggressively asserting an alarming view. Then it pulled the other way, with public opinion loudly proclaiming disturbingly extreme views on the other side. It felt like a pendulum swinging wildly from one extreme to the other. She found it frightening and destabilizing. She was uncomfortable with such agressive expressions of strong, extreme views.

My acquaintance continued her story. She was relieved to observe that eventually the pendulum always settled down to a quite reasonable position in the middle. Americans fought it out, expressing all possible views, and eventually came up with a sensible resolution. After she learned that, she was no longer afraid of the rather messy process used to get there.

It seems to me that sometime since then, the pendulum forgot how to settle down. It's as if someone inserted a battery. Now, it only swings wildly. I feel sorry for the poor pendulum, which surely needs a rest.

I hope we can recover our ability to find sensible solutions to difficult problems, even when we don't completely get our own way.